Advice on how to encourage open communication with your teen and what we suggest you discuss before Schoolies.
Resources and advice to help your teen look after their wellbeing and relationships during Schoolies.
Make sure your teen knows their rights and responsibilities when it comes to Schoolies.
Find out what support is available to teens celebrating Schoolies on the Gold Coast.
Information about various Schoolies locations.
Schoolies is often promoted as the best week of your teen’s life but this is often not the case. The human body is not designed to work without sleep, food or water so non-stop partying for seven days is unrealistic – no matter how fit and healthy your teen is.
At times, Schoolies can be overwhelming. If your teen is feeling distressed or not coping, they can head to the Emergency Treatment Centre (Gold Coast) for psychological and mental health support. Alternatively, they can call always call Triple Zero (000).
If your teen takes care of themselves and their mates, enjoy some downtime as well as the busy times, their Schoolies experience is sure to be memorable for all of the right reasons.
Top ten points to help your teen protect their relationships and wellbeing during Schoolies:
- Remind your teen to stay true to themselves and stick to their choices and what’s right for them. Don’t do something that they normally wouldn’t do just because their peers are doing it, and its Schoolies!
- Get your teen to chat with the friends they’ll be staying with about morals, values and acceptable behaviour to ensure they’re all on the same page during Schoolies.
- Value and protect their friendships – real friends should be respectful that everyone has different ideas on how they wish to celebrate
- Don’t make one wrong choice now that could possibly ruin a future
- The human body is not designed to party with no sleep for seven days straight. If a friend needs a night off partying, encourage your teen to be a good friend and stay in with them.
- Discuss expectations around Schoolies and explain that it’s completely normal that they may feel emotional highs and lows, and that it’s okay to not feel okay. Remind them to communicate with the people around them, and that there is always help available.
- If your teen is taking any form of prescription medication:
- ensure they visit their GP to discuss the effects of mixing their medication with drugs and alcohol
- make sure they let their friends know about the type of medication
- make sure they’re friends know who they should contact in the event of an emergency
- get them to set reminders in their phone to take their medication
- Suggest your teen opens up to their friends about any existing mental health issues and how they’re feeling leading up to Schoolies – their friends may also be feeling similar
- Get your teen to connect with a trusted adult - whether it be an aunty, family friend, teacher or parent. Touch base with them before Schoolies to let them know they’re their chosen person to contact during Schoolies if they need someone to talk to.
- Make sure your teen knows that they can call at any time of the day if they’re in trouble and that you’ll be there to help them.