• Strategies and advice to help keep you safe when drinking during Schoolies.

  • Strategies and advice to help keep you safe if you choose to take drugs during Schoolies.

  • Tips and advice on how to stay safe when celebrating in the Schoolies Hub.

  • Strategies on how to stay safe during sex at Schoolies .

  • Learn how to protect yourself and your friends on social media during Schoolies.

  • Tips and advice to help keep you safe in your Schoolies accommodation.

  • Practical tips to keep you safe when out and about during Schoolies.

Sex

If you choose to engage in sexual activity during Schoolies, it’s important:

  • for you to decide if you want to have sex – if it doesn’t feel right, you can always say no (and at any time)
  • that you both consent to the sexual activity
  • that you have safe sex every time.

Sexual consent is pretty straightforward – it is when both people say YES, and willingly agree to engage in a specific sexual activity.

Sexual consent can be withdrawn at any time. If your partner says NO, that means STOP, immediately!

Sexual consent is also not transferable – to a different sexual activity, different day or different person.

It is important that you ask for consent before engaging in, and continuously during sex.

Consent:

  • must be voluntary and given freely and willingly, without fear, force or intimidation
  • must be given actively and enthusiastically by both parties
  • is NOT silent. Never assume you have consent – you should always clarify by asking
  • must be ongoing and continuous – you or your partner are allowed to change your mind at any stage of a sexual encounter
  • must be clear and concise – agreeing to going back to someone’s place does not mean they’re consenting to sexual activity
  • is not assumed simply because you have had sex with your partner before
  • can’t be given if someone is drunk, under the influence of drugs, asleep, unconscious or semi-conscious
  • is not automatic just because you are in a relationship – including new relationships formed at Schoolies. Only YES means YES
  • is not someone eventually saying yes after repeatedly being pressured to engage in a sexual act – even if they are your boyfriend or girlfriend.

Still struggling with the idea of consent? Check out Blue Seat Studio’s ‘Consent is like a cup of tea’ video.

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Did you know? You can always change your mind – at any time, even if you have already started getting intimate. All sexual activity must stop once consent is withdrawn.

It’s important to keep communicating and checking in on whether you are both feeling comfortable with what is happening.

How you can stay safe

Safe sex is having sexual contact while protecting yourself and your sexual partner against sexually transmissible infections (STIs) and unplanned pregnancy. When it comes to safe sex, when used correctly, condoms offer the best protection against STIs and pregnancy.

If you choose to have sex at Schoolies:

  • always use condoms – they offer the best protection against sexually transmissible infections (STIs) and unplanned pregnancy. Know that our Safer Schoolies Volunteers will always be carrying some if you’re ever in need.
  • don’t think you can tell if someone has an STI just by looking at them. Most STIs don’t have any obvious signs.
  • before having sex, talk about using condoms with your partner and come to an agreement about using condoms. Remember, you have the right to say NO if your partner does not agree to use condoms.
  • if you are having unprotected sex, talk to your partner about the risks involved. Your decision about safe sex is important—some STIs can be cured but some can’t (e.g. herpes), and you may not experience any initial symptoms.
  • be aware that drugs and alcohol may affect your ability to make good decisions. Protect yourself from having sex that you might regret or were pressured into because you weren’t thinking properly.

Safe sex is also about having sex when you and your partner are ready, consensual and having sex that’s enjoyable, respectful and protected.

Understanding sexual assault

Sexual assault is any unwanted sexual, physical, verbal or visual behaviour that makes a person feel uncomfortable, frightened or forces them to have sexual contact against their will.

There are different forms of sexual assault including:

  • unwanted fondling or touching above or under clothing
  • rape
  • harassment
  • exposing or flashing without consent
  • forcing someone to pose for sexual pictures or videos
  • molestation
  • incest
  • sharing naked photos without consent (even if they were given to you with consent).

Sexual assault is never your fault. Sexual assault is a crime.

What to do if you have been sexually assaulted?

If you have been sexually assaulted, know that you’re not alone and that you shouldn’t feel ashamed or to blame as what has happened to you isn’t your fault.

The first thing you should do is go somewhere you feel safe such as the home of a friend or family member or even to your nearest Hospital Emergency Department. Then if you feel that you can, you should consider telling someone you trust what has occurred.

At Schoolies, call Triple Zero (000) and ask for the Ambulance Service, or talk to one of our Safer Schoolies volunteers and they will help you speak to an Ambulance Officer.

Where to get support: